The girls have discovered American Girl dolls. We have never discussed them or taken them to the store. I recycle the magazine when it shows up in the mailbox. However, Ainsley has gotten too old for that. Her classmates are talking... and she is listening. Quite a few of them were given American Girl dolls for Christmas. She is now obsessed with the idea of them. I took them to the store for the first time last week. She walked through with wide eyes and enjoyed every step. She was not obnoxious or demanding. She took it all in and asked a lot of questions.
The girls have A LOT of dolls already. A LOT. But, as Ainsley points out daily, they are not American Girl dolls. Ainsley has her heart set on Julie, the "hippie one" as her daddy says. Brynn loves Molly with the birthday set. And Brooke was a big fan of the babies... well, the double stroller and potty seat mostly!
Their daddy has made it very clear that he will not be spending that much money on a doll (which would have to be 3!) He was a lot more willing to discuss it before we had 3 girls!
So, we have discussed it and come up with a plan. They can earn money to buy the doll... they earn dimes for positive behavior. Once they earn 30 dimes, they are eligible to pick out a prize. The prizes are around $5-7 usually. So, if they decide to save up their money then they can buy the doll. They also have the opportunity to earn $1 for doing extra things like picking up their rooms.
And now we have reached an all time low on bribery...
The girls won't sleep in their own beds. They start in there, but they wander into our room sometime between 1am and 4am. Ainsley is really good at just crawling to the foot of the bed so we don't even know she is there until I straighten my legs and kick her in the face!
So, we have a new game! They can earn $1 if they stay in their beds the ENTIRE night! So far they have each earned $1.
I know this is a terrible parenting tool. Nobody needs to tell me! But here is the deal- we want the kids out of our bed and they want an American Girl doll.
I have done the math and it will take them approximately 22 months to earn their money for the dolls, so they may be better off just putting them on their birthday lists! However, that won't really teach them anything will it???
And for the time being, they are "practicing" showing us that they are responsible and ready for a special doll. They have the My Generation knock-off dolls that now get a lot of special attention.